Anglicans offer baptism/wedding for out-of-wedlock parents

LONDON (RNS) The Church of England, in a bid to keep pace with the changing times, has begun promoting a “2-for-1” service that allows couples to combine a marriage ceremony with the baptism of their children born out of wedlock. Guidelines for the controversial “hatch and match” liturgy went out Thursday (July 23) to the […]

LONDON (RNS) The Church of England, in a bid to keep pace with the changing times, has begun promoting a “2-for-1” service that allows couples to combine a marriage ceremony with the baptism of their children born out of wedlock.

Guidelines for the controversial “hatch and match” liturgy went out Thursday (July 23) to the church’s 16,000 parishes — in time for what it describes as “a wedding `high’ this summer.”

The church’s move is seen as an attempt to deal with the growing trend of couples having children out of wedlock. In Britain, new government figures show about 44 percent of children are being born to unmarried mothers.


The Church of England said its own research had found that “one in five couples who come to church for a wedding already have children, together or from a previous relationship.”

In a statement issued online by the church, Bishop Stephen Platten of Wakefield welcomed the new initiative under which “the church can respond pastorally to our changing world if a priest feels it would be advisable to offer this option.”

The Rev. Tim Sledge, vicar of Romsey, in the Diocese of Winchester, added that “now the guidelines are available online, the church can `say yes’ and offer an even warmer wedding welcome to couples with children.”

But in a report in The Times newspaper in London, Bishop John Broadhurst of Fulham appeared considerably less pleased, commenting sarcastically that “it is a pity they have not put in a funeral for grandma as well.”

Stephen Parkinson, a spokesman for the Anglo-Catholic group Forward in Faith, added that “it is a shame that what should be a bride’s day now stands to be hijacked by screaming kids.”

The new guidelines — “Marriage and Holy Baptism” and “Marriage and Thanksgiving for the Gift of a Child” — are available on the Church of England’s Web site: http://www.cofe.anglican.org.


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