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(RNS) Christian conservative leader James Dobson, the founder of the Focus on the Family ministry, has gained a new title: novelist. Working with co-author Kurt Bruner, a Texas pastor, he’s out with “Fatherless,” the first of a dystopian trilogy.

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  1. Perhaps James Dobson should have the humility to think about the damage done to marriage by the Christian right: if women would rather go childless than submit to patriarchy, maybe patriarchy should take a good hard look at itself.

    The feminist revolution (which Mr Dobson no doubt blames for the falling birthrate) was in large part a response to the degraded status of women in societies which were progressing in every other way. Its a bit like the Civil Rights movement being a response to segregation. Blacks organised because they had a bad deal. Women too.

    • No kidding. Of course he jumps to the conclusion that feminism is turning women into selfish harpies, and never stops to think that women turned away from their forced gender roles due to being taken for granted, exploited, abused, and having no legal rights to prevent it.

      The conservative American myth of raising perfect little homeschooled angels in your cute little house with a white picket fence and being a housewife comfortably supported by your doting husband is not how it was for most of history (even today that’s really only something that can be managed with a very specific type of societal/financial privilege). Back in the day being a wife could end in all sorts of awful ways – if your husband died or left you, it was basically a death sentence (even TODAY widowed/unmarried women make up 70% of the world’s poor). You couldn’t stop your husband if he wanted to have an affair. Chances of dying in childbirth were astronomical. It was perfectly okay to beat or kill wives who displeased you. Divorce was completely in his hands, and in many cases it was likely not even the woman’s choice to be married to him in the first place. The only reason prostitution became a thing was due to the fact that it was the only way a woman could support herself in a world that did not exactly give her lots of options. Yes, the idol of “traditional marriage” that Dobson and his ilk so fervently worship was historically such a garbage deal for women that selling your body for money was seen as THE HEALTHIER LIFESTYLE CHOICE. Let that sink in for a while.

      Ironically, if Christians would just listen to the concerns of feminists and work towards fixing our toxic, sexist culture I am quite sure marriage and family could actually be a good thing for women again. But of course it’s not like Christians who vote Republican are ever going to do anything practical about it, not when they can condescendingly wag their fingers at women and blame us for things men have done. If you care so darn much about getting women back into the sphere of family life, how about some universal healthcare so we know if we have sick babies they won’t die because they were born in the wrong socio-economic braket? How about promoting comprehensive sex ed and contraception access as a matter of public health, so abortion rates will plummet and people can build more stable families? How about not demonizing and punishing single mothers anymore? How about making this world a place that is friendly to women in GENERAL so that they would WANT to become mothers?

      And of course we have the implication that all religions and philosophies that don’t jive with his particular brand of fundagelical “values” leads to the destruction of family and community. Last I checked, all of the most populated nations on Earth are decidedly non-Christian. I’ll take “White Americans need to get over their cultural superiority complex” for $500, Alex!

  2. I understand the fear. And as the parent of 3 kids I have been condemned for polluting the world with my offspring. And I do believe that there is pressure on older people to suicide out–and I feel that pressure.

    But I don’t believe that Dobson has the answers. This stinking piece of garbage wants to create a world in which my life will be hell. The aim of Dobson and his white trash evangelical followers is to promote sex roles, and a world where my life, as a woman, will be lousy. I want the same life as men have. I want Dobson and all his stinking white trash followers dead.

  3. Could only read about 3 of the Q & A answers before getting nauesous. As a popular bumper sticker here in Co. Springs proclaims ” Focus on your own damn family” and that about sums it up for me. Nothing but your typical donate your tax free money to me and no doubt this “novel” by Dobson will be advertised in Christian circles as some sort of incredible Christian literature and work of genius. I’ll predict not.

  4. Oh wow – that was like reading a grumpy old man’s complaint about how things were so much better in “his” generation. How awful.

    The fifties/sixties were actually abnormal for their high marriage rates. We are headed back to a more normal plateau – with longer lives, but thats not necessarily a bad thing. The birth rate isn’t anything that new either; people just have forgotten what it was like previous to modern medicine when a couple could have eight children and lose all of them to disease – and often the mother as well to childbirth and still end up alone. If one or two survived, they were doing well! Who wants to go back to that? It’s still that way in many parts of the world – childbirth still kills more women worldwide than anything else.

    The misery of American privilege is sometimes a bit much to take.

  5. Bearing children was always presented in the Bible as a great blessing (the terms ‘gift’ and ‘reward’ have been used to describe children as well). However, there’s no verse that says couples are REQUIRED to bear children, whether they want to or not. Due to the fact that in those days people always wanted children, deliberate childlessness was never an issue; (Onan being an exception, but that’s because he went against the law requiring him to give his brother an heir). So I’m not so quick to agree with Dr.Dobson or Dr.Mohler, although I admit they may be right and I wrong.

    As a single hoping to marry someday, I do not want children. However, if the Lord through the Holy Spirit reveals that it’s His will that my wife and I have children, I will accept. Also, if the wife He blesses me with wants children, I am also willing to put her desires before my own, as well as the Lords. I have prayed to the Lord that He would not give us any children, and I have felt through the Holy Spirit that He does not detest me for asking this prayer (meaning He is not angry), but if He insists that we have children, then I know that it will be better off for me in the long-run.
    Perhaps the world IS becoming over-populated and He has given more people the desire to be barren; I do not know… (again, in Bible times, even the unbelievers all wanted to bear children). Christians should definitely seek God’s will through prayer on this issue…

  6. I love Children but I don’t want them myself. I agree with some the things Dobson believes. I might also Vote Republican although I consider myself a independent. Today’s society it is very hard to raise a kid with incomes that go up and down. It is not like what was in the 1940’s, 50’s and 60’s. We need to stop worrying about the fact that there might be fewer people that want kids. As long they aren’t aborting kids but instead putting up for adoption or using other non abortion methods. I might be pro-life but it does not mean I want kids myself. I fear that I could provide them. I hope I can get a good paying when I’m done college but what happens if end up back in a dead end job. IF some wants big family and kids then fine. Hopefully they can handle raising them physically, mentally, emotionally and financially. It costs 250,000 to raise kid from birth to 18 years old. This does not include extras like college. i don’t believe the earth is overpopulated and that is not a reason why I don’t want kids. I don’t believe every married couple needs to have kids.

  1. […] A: This is my first novel, but not my first foray into fiction. I have always believed in the power of narratives to influence thought and shape the spiritual imagination. While with Focus on the Family I challenged the team to create a radio drama series called “Adventures in Odyssey.’’ My co-author, Kurt Bruner, led that team for several years. We couldn’t be more excited about the potential of this new trilogy to embody themes on which I have been writing, speaking and broadcasting for decades…. Read this interview in full at http://www.religionnews.com/2013/02/07/as-novelist-james-dobson-portrays-a-bleak-future-for-families… […]

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