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Categories: Beliefs

Martin Elfert

Martin Elfert

The Rev. Martin Elfert is an immigrant to the Christian faith. After the birth of his first child, he began to wonder about the ways in which the Divine was at work in the world. Shortly thereafter, he joined Christ Church Cathedral in Vancouver, BC, where he and his new son were baptized at the Easter Vigil in 2005 and where the community encouraged him to seek ordination.


  1. Hi…I’m 18 turning 19 in a few months, me and my boyfriend planned on ask my parents to get married so then my dad passed away 2 weeks ago, we would like to get married next year march, when can I actually ask my mom about it? I’m not confused about getting married, I’m confused wether its the right timing.