Conservative Jews’ gay wedding rules mostly met with a shrug

WASHINGTON (RNS) The Conservative Jewish movement has come out with rites for same-sex marriages, and the most remarkable part is how they were accepted without much protest. By Lauren Markoe.

WASHINGTON (RNS) The Conservative Jewish movement established guidelines last week for the marriage of gay and lesbian couples. The reaction so far? Hard to find.

Asked if there had been any pushback, Rabbi Julie Schonfeld, executive vice president of the movement’s Rabbinical Assembly, said “just the opposite.”

“There is a tremendous sense of appreciation, of celebration,” said Schonfeld. “The guidance is considered thoughtful and helpful to do what it was intended to do … to bring sanctity between people who want to build a Jewish home.”


Conservative Judaism, which sits between the more liberal Reform and the more traditional Orthodox, lifted the ban on the ordination of gay rabbis in 2006.

As for same-sex marriages, it has been 12 years since the Reform movement of Judaism – the largest within the United States – gave rabbis the right to perform same-sex marriages. For years, though, some Conservative rabbis have also been performing these marriages.

The new guidelines outline two possible marriage ceremonies for same-sex couples, which clergy are free to adapt. The guidelines passed the Rabbinical Assembly’s Committee on Jewish Law and Standards by a 13-0 vote, with one abstention.

Schonfeld said there are rabbis within the Conservative movement who do not want to perform same-sex marriages. It should be clear, she said, that they don’t have to.

“We are a big-tent movement,” she said. “There remain people for whom this is not what they understand Jewish law to dictate. They don’t have an obligation.”

Rabbi Rick Jacobs, leader of the Reform movement in the U.S. and Canada, applauded the Conservatives' move.


“We have been there for quite a while,” he said of the approval of same-sex marriage rites. “We think it’s great for the Jewish people, and it's a hugely important move for everyone in non-Orthodox Judaism.”

KRE/AMB END MARKOE

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